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Slaves to What Masters US
The Apostle Peter said, "We are slaves to what masters us." In the order of life, failure to deal with our obsessions and compulsions will lead us into a form of slavery, bondage if you will, to the tormenting struggles that we all endure. Leo Tolstoy addresses this in his book "Anna Karenina" written over 100 years from the heartland of Russia. In this novel, he explores the themes of hypocrisy, jealousy, faith, fidelity, family, marriage, society, progress, carnal desire and passion.Anna Karenina (1877) tells parallel stories of an adulterous woman trapped by the conventions and falsities of society and of a philosophical landowner (much like Tolstoy), who works alongside the peasants in the fields and seeks to reform their lives.
Perhaps the popularity of his book, even today, is related to his boldness to face these realities. As we mentioned in our last post, reality is a nettlesome subject that we all struggle with. Denying the struggle or minimizing it brings a certain disability to our existence. This can freeze our emotional state and leave us trapped in a world of make believe, assuming certain behaviors that protects our dignity and status...living behind a mask.
When we realize we are slaves to what masters us we raise the potential that we can move away from the struggle to do what is good while unable to carry it out.
In the finality of things, we want to do the right thing. Yet, when we try in our own power, we fall short. We end up doing precisely what we don't want to do. At some point, hopefully, we come to realize we are not God. We admit we are powerless to control our tendency to do the wrong thing and that our life has become unmanageable.
Tolstoy, after reading Schopenhauer's The World as Will and Representation, emphasized this portion of the book:
But this very necessity of involuntary suffering (by poor people) for eternal salvation is also expressed by that utterance of the Savior (Matthew 19:24): "It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God." Therefore those who were greatly in earnest about their eternal salvation, chose voluntary poverty when fate had denied this to them and they had been born in wealth. Thus Buddha Sakyamuni was born a prince, but voluntarily took to the mendicant's staff; and Francis of Assisi, the founder of the mendicant orders who, as a youngster at a ball, where the daughters of all the notabilities were sitting together, was asked: "Now Francis, will you not soon make your choice from these beauties?" and who replied: "I have made a far more beautiful choice!" "Whom?" "La poverta (poverty)": whereupon he abandoned every thing shortly afterwards and wandered through the land as a mendicant. – Schopenhauer, Parerga and Paralipomena, Vol. II, §170
As Americans, we live a life of nobility, compared the existence of the common man in Russia during Tolstoy's lifetime. Yet, we can hardly bear the thought of abandoning the American Dream and giving away our wealth. It's too painful for us. So, we live in this make believe world filled with denial, glossing over our struggles, and putting on the mask of respectability while outwardly manifesting religious behaviors necessary to live the gospel according to the American Dream, slaves to what masters us.
God's Grace
After attending the CR Leadership Summit at Saddleback Church in Lake Forrest, CA last week I am reminded again of how wonderful is the grace of God. Over 3,500 CR enthusiasts attended the three-day summit. The evidence of God's grace was everywhere. As we learn in our CR bible, grace is a gift from God. It cannot be bought but is freely offered by God to us. To hear the amazing testimonies how God brought people into recovery was mouth dropping. One lady who killed her husband stood and gave her testimony of God's work of grace. She is now free, working, raising a family, and serving in her local church CR Program.
While she paid the price for her deed, she received God's grace by faith. God saw her a a person worth saving...and He did.
While the pathway to the unfortunate incident, while embroiled in a domestic fight trying to defend hereself from the violence of her husband, she found the opposite when God met her. he met her with love, not violence.
The lady paid a price for killing her husband in self-defense by going to prison. But, the ultimate price was paid by Jesus by his death on the cross. She accepted His finished work and now testifies about the price Jesus paid for our sins.
The result: an everlasting gift, eternal irreversible grace from heaven.This lady now models God's grace and testifies of the freeing work of this woonderful attribute of God.
This is just one example of what happened at the Summit. Mark your calenders for next year. The Summit is August 10-12, 2011.
God's Grace
After attending the CR Leadership Summit at Saddleback Church in Lake Forrest, CA last week I am reminded again of how wonderful is the grace of God. Over 3,500 CR enthusiasts attended the three-day summit. The evidence of God's grace was everywhere. As we learn in our CR bible, grace is a gift from God. It cannot be bought but is freely offered by God to us. To hear the amazing testimonies how God brought people into recovery was mouth dropping. One lady who killed her husband stood and gave her testimony of God's work of grace. She is now free, working, raising a family, and serving in her local church CR Program.
While she paid the price for her deed, she received God's grace by faith. God saw her a a person worth saving...and He did.
While the pathway to the unfortunate incident, while embroiled in a domestic fight trying to defend hereself from the violence of her husband, she found the opposite when God met her. he met her with love, not violence.
The lady paid a price for killing her husband in self-defense by going to prison. But, the ultimate price was paid by Jesus by his death on the cross. She accepted His finished work and now testifies about the price Jesus paid for our sins.
The result: an everlasting gift, eternal irreversible grace from heaven.This lady now models God's grace and testifies of the freeing work of this woonderful attribute of God.
This is just one example of what happened at the Summit. Mark your calenders for next year. The Summit is August 10-12, 2011.
Drugs of Choice
In a recent article I read, it stated that Americans prefer taking a pill (Prozac, etc.) rather than talking about their depression. However, they don't like the side-effects.The article went on to state that patients benefited just as much from therapy, almost any kind of therapy as well. Those surveyed said they improved just as much after seven (7) or more sessions of talk therapy as if they took drugs and it did not matter if the therapist was a pyychiatrist, psychologist or social worker.
Enter, Celebrate Recovery. While we do not refer to ourselves as therapists, we certainly are strong believers in providing a safe place for people to talk about thier problelms, viz. Open Share Groups and Step Studies.
This useful information is a powerful witnessing tool for each of us as we carry the message to others. Use it freely.
For further information see www.ConsumerReports.org/cro/magazine-archive/2010/july/health/depression-anxiety/overview/index.htm
Low Probability, High Impact
The oil spill along the Gulf Coast provides tremendous insight into the working nature of our soul. I will attempt to make the connection between the two in this article. With regard to the oil spill, BP made the decision to compromise on certain technical matters associated with the pumping of oil and natural gas to the surface. To my knowledge this revolved around a device known as a blow-out preventer. Simply put, it didn't work - the preventer didn't prevent. Result: high-impact problems, well documented in the news.
Concerning the soul, i.e. recovery, a similar pattern emerges. We rationalize that it won't hurt to have one drink, one cigarette, one peak at trash, one day missed in reading our CR Bible or attending a meeting. In other words, there is a low-probability of anything happening and we are deluded into greater and greater risk taking ventures. Then one day, it happens. There is a blow-out, we are sucked back in a full blown state of relapse. It's called by a variety of names such as? backsliding, walking away from God, indifference, coldness, etc.
So, what can we do? We can ensure we get on and stay on the right track. Here are a few suggestions:
T - hink of the consequences before you act. Remember, if anything can go wrong, it will....eventually.
R - emember who gets hurt. It's called the ripple effect. Use the bad feelings you have when you engage in low-probability, high-impact behavior to lead you away from the mis-guided behavior.
A - ct on plans ahead of time about making a responsible choice when the temptation arises. Think ahead! When past memories excite you, consider it poison.
C - eck your thinking. Examine your situation and conscience immediately when you think about irresponsibile conduct.
K - eep thinking responsible thoughts. Dismiss irresponsible thoughts fast. Ask yourself,"Am I thinking truth or error?" Remember the words of Jesus, "the truth will set you free."
Fess Up
Yes, from time to time, we all need to "fess" up. "Fess," as most every one knows is the second syllable of the word confess. There's on old proverb that says, "If you mess up, fess up." Even as we write, The British Pertroleum Company is receiving pressure to "fess up" about the oil spill. Yesterday, Lance Armstrong the famous cyclist was under pressure to fess up about his drug use. The list can go on. This is indirectly related to what I call "the blame game." When we play mind games, especially in our relationships we often attempt to shift the blame. Several techniques are used such as:try and confuse the issue, point out the other persons' fault, build oneself up by putting others down, using the time worn phrase "you don't understand."
Additional techniques are lying and ignoring responsiblity.
Where are you in all this? Not sure, then make an appointment to be at CR next week when we focus on stop the conning and fess up.
Camp Bighorn!



